No Ike n Tina!

Ike and Tina-type relationships are very tragic. Why? It gets hard to enjoy certain things without your man abusing you. He realizes he’s doing the wrong thing after you leave him, succeed without him, and find another man whose sweet and love-y. 

   These types of relationships are complicated for us to survive only because we're afraid that if we leave our man, they might kill us. But for the sake of our lives, we have to. Why? Who wants to live under depression? NOBODY! We are trying to prove men wrong by being independent. We are showing them that they need to stop making us feel worthless. 

      I've had this type of relationship 5 years ago. I broke up with my ex because he was mentally abusive. He makes me feel worthless and he's been wanting to take advantage of me and he thinks sex is the only point of our relationship when it's really not. 5 years passed and he still can't get over me. He's taking advantage of other girls, now, but no matter how many he left behind, he STILL can't get over me. Why? He posted pictures of me on Instagram and said I'm ugly. That is very ironic, but I've been over him. He just couldn't accept the fact that I'm over him.

        If you're in an Ike n Tina relationship right now, let me know. I will be glad to help you with these type of relationships.

How I See Myself

  How do I view myself in the world today? As of right now, I view myself as a musical person, to whereas, music symbolizes life.

        I have ups and downs, just like life and music. There are times when I feel gleeful and there are times when I feel hurt inside. But I am still optimistic and faithful to myself. I know that every cloud has a silver lining. If I did not know that or believe that, and if I am not true to myself, I would have a different name. In other words, my name would not be Faith and I would not be so divadom, but only on the outside. I look at being divadom as inner beauty and not outer beauty.
       In the future, I would continue to be faithful to myself and be strong like Laila Ali. How I would help people who are feeling down is through music therapy because music is an easy way that people express themselves. I would also help those who are suffering with cancer by giving them positive messages. I would attend Winston-Salem State University and get a bachelors degree in music and a master’s degree in music therapy. I want to become either a music composer or a music therapist.

The Boy is NOT Mine?

"You need to give it up!/ I had about enough!/ It's not hard to see the boy is mine!" These are the chorus to Brandy and Monica's song, "The Boy is Mine". It's the fact that girls are fighting over guys. Wanna know who starts these fights? GUYS! Why? They think it's entertaining to see girls fight over them! Guys, listen up. It's not okay to date two girls. You may say, "I can get away with this. I'M A MAN!" Guess what? YOU CAN'T! 'Cause you'll be BUSTED!

         "So, how do I talk to another girl that my boyfriend's dating without starting a fight?" Well, first off, calm your anger. Next, ask what her name is and introduce yourself. Then ask her about your boyfriend. After she tells you about him, let her know you both are dating the same guy. Now you both have an opportunity to bust him!
             

Cyberbullying

Psalm 36:1-2
"The trangression of the wicked saith within my heart, that there is no fear of God before his eyes. For he flattereth himself in his own eyes, until his iniquity be found to be hateful."

These bible verses are saying that cyberbullies are confident that "not a soul can see or catch them, especially God."

What's the point of bullying thru devices or computers anyway? I mean, seriously, "if you ain't got nothin' nice to say, don't say it at all." This is one of the reasons why half a million teenagers are committing SUICIDE. 

  People these days think they can get away with cyber bullying, but guess what? THEY CAN'T! 'Cause that situation's gonna get reported one day. 

   I've experienced being cyber-bullied before. I decided to talk to my ex-friend on Twitter. Then she said, "How did you find me, you stalking a**!" So I blocked her and tweeted, "People these days... trying to start some BS on Twitter. #idontwannabecyberbullied." I've also been cyberbullied by some wanna-be Jennifer Lopez on Google+. Every time I post a beauty tip, she says stuff like "B**ch, shut up!" And I blocked her as well.
    If you have been cyberbullied, do me a favor and report their statuses as abuse and block them. I have a bunch of tweets for #idontwannabecyberbullied, so you should find it on Twitter and take advantage of the tips I give about dealing with cyber bulllying. 

Mr. Wrong

 Does this title make u think of Mary J. Blidge's song "Mr. Wrong"? Sure, it does. My definition of "Mr. Wrong" is totally different. When I heard this song, I thought, it sounds like she's attracted to "Mr. Wrong". Jokingly, she stole the beat from Wiz Khalifa's song "On My Level"! Lol, anyway, b4 u cum telling me that it's ok 2 be attracted to a "Mr. Wrong", just hear me out.

            My definition of "Mr. Wrong" is a man who acts like he has no home-training, or has no home-training at all. We, women, deserve gentlemen. Why? They keep us happy 4 the rest of our lives (just like Kanye West keeping Kim Kardashian happy 4 the rest of her life no matter the hardship) no matter the hardship and we can easily enjoy our relationships with them. No need 2 be attrated 2 "Mr. Wrong" (ppl call Mr. Wrongs "bad boys"). They can get u nowhere but depression.

      Like Mary J. Blidge said, "bad boys r no good." U cant enjoy ur relationship with ur bad boyfriend without him abusing u. I know b/c I used 2 b attracted 2 bad boys. I was thru with them after bein beaten up by them many times. I was SO tired of fighting them. I'm like, can't they approach me w/out gettin all abusive?  If a guy is tryin 2 approach u like that and u accepted that type of behavior, then what ur doin is BS! Heck, if u dont believe me, look @ Tina Turner's life! Or look @ Latoya and Janet Jackson's life!

      When Tina Turner was young, she used 2 be attracted 2 bad boys. She thought it was ok until she married a "Mr. Wrong." Then he abused her. Idk if she parted from him already, but all I know is that she felt so bad about being attracted 2 bad boys. Heck, Latoya Jackson was beaten up by her ex-boyfriend (he's white, by the way). Can't remember the reason, but she had the same feeling as Tina Turner. So did Janet Jackson when she was beaten up by El Debarge.

   If this is u having that problem, say this: Enough is enough, and when I break, I break. No super glue can fix this situation. All I'm sayin is that- well, I understand that bad boys can protect u, but what if they start abusing u? U need 2 think about that. I almost cried when I'm hearing about some women being abused by men. Now dont come tellin me it's ok 4 men 2 fight women! IT AIN'T! NOT AT ALL!

       Be careful with what guy ur dating. Please! Aight, I said my piece, so if u still dont believe me, watch that movie about Tina Turner, read that book of Latoya Jackson's, look @ how Janet Jackson felt after being beaten up by El Debarge, watch that movie "Enough" with J.Lo in it, and look @ how Rihanna felt after being beaten up by Chris Brown. And if u having this situation, quote from Mariah Carey's song "Up Out My Face": When I break, I break, and no super glue can fix this! Lol, and dont 4get, we dont wanna chase boys! WE want boys chasing us! And no being attracted 2 Mr. Wrongs! Who run the world? GIRLS! Who run this mutha? GIRLS!

La Historia de Fe

Me secuestraron cuando era una niña. Nunca supe lo que mi nombre real. Nunca supe quiénes eran mis verdaderos padres hasta que tenía diez años. Fue entonces cuando me escapé de casa.
   Llevo viviendo en las calles durante dos semanas. Durante ese tiempo, el mundo se olvidó de mí. Fue muy deprimente para mí. Me he estado preguntando por qué el mundo es tan cruel. De repente, esta pareja rica que no podía tener hijos se me acercó y me pidió un aventón. A medida que fui en el coche con ellos, les hablé de la vez que me secuestraron. Yo estaba tan feliz cuando decidieron adoptarme. Me hice agradecido por una familia que ama y cuida de mí.